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Adult Toys For Couples

Toys add excitement and fun during masturbation, orgasms with an accomplice and oral stimulation. But, as Fosnight says, it’s important to remember that toys shouldn’t be used to replace intimacy.

Try a dual-ended vibration such as the PlusOne Dual Vibrating Arc for greater pleasure while masturbating or play with friends. It is waterproof and made with extra-soft silicone that gives an easy, safe and comfortable feel.

1. Sex-Position Pillows

You and your partner can experiment with different positions, orgasms and pleasure points based on the pillow you select. Some pillows have pockets that can hold vibrator or dildo while others are designed to be used for full-body massages or as a stimulator for the clitoris. “A sexual pillow can provide you a variety of angles to look at and aid in penetration and orgasm, especially for women who have difficulty getting the job done in missionary position,” says Chanta Blue, MSW, MEd., LCSW, CST, (she/they) a sexuality and relationship therapist.

Consider the materials and the thickness of a pillow when deciding on one. A pillow made from memory foam may be more comfortable and supple to your head and neck, while a cotton or microfiber cover can be easier to clean. It’s important to take into consideration the size of the pillow particularly if it is shared with your partner. Choose a pillow that is comfortable, fairly thick and can fold in half to make it easier to store.

Couples find that pillows, wedges or ramps can improve existing sex poses and introduce new ones. It’s important to introduce the pillow slowly and then talk about how you can use it. This sex cushion ramp combo from Liberator is like the Swiss Army knife of sexually oriented cushions. It can be used as an ramp or climax wedge. Alternatively, a simple wedge pillow from Liberator can be used for missions, doggy-style penetration or vaginal stimulation. Both pillows come with machine washable covers that keep them clean in between uses.

2. Blindfolds

A blindfold may seem like an odd toy to play with in your play in the bedroom however, it packs an impactful punch. The loss of one of the senses heightens others, and opens up a whole new world of sensual activities that you may not otherwise consider.

For example If you’re a couple who likes bondage play or dominance kinks (or both) You can put on blindfolds to tie your partner up during masturbation. This could be a great way to turn the tables for some partners as well as a fun way to explore power relationships within your relationship. Be sure to create a respectful and loving environment, and get ongoing consent, prior to engaging in power play.

Similarly, you can use blindfolds to make your partner feel them or each other. This is an arousal method that is particularly effective for shy individuals or those with body image issues. It is a great way to increase your partner’s self-confidence and trust.

You can also use a blindfold to introduce new sensations, like feathers tickling or ice to your partner’s naked skin. If you’re feeling adventurous you could even play a blindfold foreplay session using a clitoral succion vibrator, such as Biird’s Namii.

If you both want to take it a step further, you can give your partner a sensual erotic massage by putting a blindfold on. Massage oils and aromatherapy can increase the intensity of this intimate action to strengthen bonding. You can play around with their erogenous zones, massage them and kiss them, and increase anticipation by varying speed as well as pressure, tools and more. It’s crucial to gain permission and respect their boundaries when playing with a blindfold but the possibilities are limitless for those who embrace this kinky toy.

3. Handcuffs

Handcuffs are a classic tool for sex that adds an element of submission and dominance to any sexual experience. They can also be used to create a sense of mystery and intrigue, which can increase the intimacy between lovers. There are a myriad of different handcuffs on the market that range from traditional metal ones to the soft and fuzzy handcuffs which feel good against the skin and provide distinct textures for exploration. Whatever kind of handcuffs you choose, it’s important to ensure they’re top-quality and secure, with a quick-release mechanism in case of emergency. Make sure they are fitted correctly to avoid injury or discomfort.

Handcuffs are a great way to enhance sexual intimacy. They can be used to tie one partner to the other or to restrict their movement. You can use them to play cops and robbers, or to give comfort and reassurance by putting them into the position of a missionary or a bear hug.

You can start by restraining a part of your body at a time if you’re new to bondage. This can aid in building confidence and level of comfort before you move on to more advanced restraints. Always use an appropriate word or signal and make sure to check in with your partner regularly, to prevent trauma or injury.

If you’re a seasoned Kinkster or are looking for new ways to spice up your relationship, adding a little bit of power play to your collection of sex toys could be a significant turn on. If you’re a couple who is eager to go to the next level, adding handcuffs in your bedroom sexual activities can be a hugely satisfying addition to your sex life.

4. Sex-Stimulation Toys

Incorporating toys into your sexual life isn’t just about having fun; it can also enhance your relationship. Couples who play with sexual toys have a higher degree of intimacy satisfaction. Couples who play with toys are more likely to communicate better and develop trust than couples who do not.

Even couples who have been together for a long time can slip into a routine of sexual activity. Using adult toys to make the relationship more enjoyable is an excellent idea. For instance, the Lovehoney finger vibrator is a discreet toy that can be placed on your partner’s finger and provides an extra boost during oral sex, offering the girls a taste of what it feels like to be able to sexually assault. You can also pick an item that is more fun, like the Dame’s Eva. This toy is designed to be nestled in the clit or labia when you are having a sex with a partner.

Toys can make you and your partner feel more confident when playing together. Toys can help you open up the conversation with your partner, and also give you something to bring to the bed. For instance, if you feel that your partner’s clit, or penis is what makes you want to talk about it you could make use of a couple’s massager to study that part of the body.

Additionally, having a device to get an orgasm more easily can be comforting for many women who are unable to naturally orgasm. This is particularly true for those who have difficulty with mental or clitoral stimuli. Three out of four women need direct or indirect clitoral stimuli to get their sexual pleasure. This makes vibrators an affordable and effective way to boost your pleasure.

5. Lube

Lubrication makes sexual pleasure more sexually enticing, similar to icing on cake. Lubricants aren’t only for penetrative sexual activity. They can also be used in oral sex, handjobs, and a range of other toys. They also help condoms stay on and reduce friction for a safer, more comfortable experience.

You can choose between silicone-based, oil-based, or water-based oils, lubricants or silicone-based. It is recommended to choose one that is water-based since it won’t damage condoms made of latex, or sex toys made of silicone. You can also pick a lubricant with other ingredients such as peppermint and honey to enhance the sensual pleasure.

Applying lube is easy and you can make use of single-use applicators for penis, vagina, or anus, or tubes you can directly inject into the vulva. You can even put it on condoms to make the process more comfortable or on a compatible sex toys for increased sensation and prolong the fun.

The inclusion of sex toys in your sexual toolkit can open the door to new and exciting intimacy. But keep in mind that the sex toys aren’t tools — they’re meant to be used in conjunction with safe and responsible sexual practices to avoid the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. If adult toys for couples how to introduce them or need some advice on how to make use of them safely, speak with your partner(s) first, and make sure to obtain their consent. Have fun! You’ll be glad you did. The possibilities are endless. The possibilities are endless. From double-sided vibrators to remote controlled dildos, your bedroom is yours to explore. You can live the life of all your fantasies if you know where to look.